Skip navigation! Story from Sex. But sometimes we just want a night that could come straight out of a romance novel. When Refinery29 asked women to share their deepest sexual fantasies , some imagined totally sweet scenes. We're cuddling in bed and making out. Before you lead your partner to bed, set the mood — not only with candles, but also clean sheets, lingerie, and maybe a sexy playlist. Hey, you can even buy roses if you want to.

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Skip navigation! Story from Sex. When did you last try a new sex position? Whether or not you're in a relationship , it's all too easy to fall back on a handful of tried-and-tested moves and forget the delicious variety available to you and your partner. That's where Clare Cavanah and Rachel Venning come in. They're not only the founders of sex toy boutique and educational hub Babeland , they're the authors of Moregasm: Babeland's Guide to Mind-Blowing Sex. With insight into everything from BDSM to birth control, Moregasm is an expert yet relatable roadmap to your best-ever sex life. The book's inclusive, deftly illustrated guides to manual, oral, vaginal, and anal sex positions are our favorite part. We're thrilled to share them with you here, beginning with Cavanah and Venning's step-by-step suggestions for vaginal sex and then adding ideas for other forms of play each month.
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Yes, Valentine's Day's may well be corporate B. Long-lasting sex isn't necessarily about longer P-in-V — it's about extending the whole experience and luxuriating in that intimate, sensual place together. Here are five ways to lengthen heh the V-Day pleasure this year. The key to deliciously long-lasting sex is finding moves that feel good, but not so good you both lose it right away. To mitigate how good you feel and look to him when you're on top, shift your position by sliding one leg down between his legs. Instead of up-and-down thrusts, grind against him. Not only does this slow things down, but it's going to feel way better to you too. Blow each other's minds by edging getting super turned on, but pulling back before one of you orgasms. Listen to each other's breathing and switch positions whenever things get too intense.
Kama Sutra positions are a classic for a reason - but good sex doesn't always have to be wild and quick. Sometimes, the most pleasure can come from a slow and sensual session. We've chosen 10 of the slowest and most pleasurable positions to try from a new Kama Sutra positions book to get you started. FYI, the penetrative positions can be attempted with a penis-having partner, or anyone else while they wear a strap-on. Find your feet with this lustful, languid position that allows fathomless penetration with all the comfort you could desire. It is ideal for lingering, lazy fun. Start with the passive partner on their back, with their head supported by a comfy cushion. The active partner should kneel in front of them, close enough for the lucky passive person to rest their feet on their chest.