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2. Communicate openly
Anal sex is becoming less of a taboo, but it can be a daunting idea and consent is essential. Once a taboo, anal sex is now seen as an enjoyable addition to many sexual relationships. So now your partner wants to give it a try. There seems to be a worrying trend within our society where some teenage boys are persuading girls into having anal sex without making consent a primary concern.
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What your grandkids won't ask you (but I sure wish they would!)
Sarah Jane Banahan, sex expert and hostess at London's exclusive Play Experience parties, tells you how to knock on the back door, and get invited in. Women like to be surprised. I read somewhere recently that now it is more respectful to "initiate" to your partner beforehand about wanting to try anal sex via text message, or phone call. Oh please! Read more: The best Twitter responses to our anal sex advice article. It's what the ladies love to get up to behind closed doors — a bit of Friday night kink , bondage , debauchery now and again. It may not be for everyone but I bet a fair few of us ladies have tried and tested. Apparently it is becoming as popular as vaginal sex. So much so it's been said that "anal is the new pussy". But how to broach this tricky subject?
More young women than ever—45 percent—are trying anal, according to the latest research from the Kinsey Institute. If you're considering having anal sex for the first time, you're probably wondering how to prepare, relax, and enjoy the intimate moment with your partner. We called in the experts: Rachel Needle , Psy. The last thing you want to be before attempting anal is tense. If this is your first time trying anal sex, spend some time relaxing—take a hot bath, ask your partner to give you a sensual massage, heck, you can even meditate. You can also focus on specifically relaxing your anal muscles. To see what that feels like, tighten your butt muscles—kind of like a kegel for the other end—and then release. As with all types of sexual activity , anal sex is something that should be discussed beforehand," says Needle.